- Some questions frequently asked by houseowners : i can't stop thinking about alcohol, pregnant, help?
♥ hey. i am 5 months pregnant. and i had a bad drinking problem prior to the pregnancy. and since finding out i was pregnant, i have stopped drinking. had maybe one bad incident of binge drinking. where i had a few drinks one night, i relapsed. but now i havn't touched a drop. but every day is such a struggle for me. its all i ever think about. i am in counseling and some therapy, and i don't know what more to do to help with this addiction right now. i just get so scared, cuz i feel so out of control, like the alcohol controls me. but i don't want to drink, i don't want to hurt the baby. im trying so hard. but its so difficult. any one have any good advice for how to not want to drink alcohol, or any one ever been through this, being an alcoholic and pregnant. plz any non judgmental advice would be appreciated. thanks.how do i stop my subconscious mind from unwanted thinking process?
♥ basically i am always thinking and thinking. if you will ask me what i am thinking i cannot answer this question because randomly something is coming to my mind and going from my mind.because i am thinking so many things within a short span of time. but this is not my problem.my problem is when i am going to study a topic or going to think on a topic.my thinking is getting diverted to some other thoughts.and finally i donot get more energy or time to study.for that reason i am unable to read or study my chapter/book which deeply affecting to my exam results .it is happening from my childhood.is there any solution to stop my unwanted thinking. if you have any solutions tell me because my exam is ahead.i have to read so many topics which are left behind only for this reason. thanks sraban kumarshould i quit seeking counsel?
♥ for awhile now, i have been seeking counseling from my priest. it originally began as couples therapy with my spouse, but then became individual sessions with just me. i went into a lot of details about my very troubled upbringing and issues within my marriage. he listened, but he also gave a lot of advice, none of which was religious advice. at one point he even told me f*** you. i felt miserable for about a week after that. i always feel miserable and anxious after our sessions. i am active in many areas of the church as i originally started seeing him more to become more active as a lay minister, but these counseling sessions are starting to make me too uncomfortable. all of these church activities involve him and i feel uneasy that he knows so many intimate details about me. he may not be thinking about them, but i am starting to feel paranoid about it. should i leave this church? should i just stop the therapy sessions? i'm not sure.how to forgive someone or a group of people who never said i'm sorry?
♥ i had a very bad experience at a counseling center at my school in which the therapist decided to end my therapy for no clear reason after she saw i was becomig too attached to her. she and the others who work with her never really told me why she made this decision. recently, i discovered she was gay and that made some sense to me but made me very angry. i started remembering all the other things that she and others had wronged me including labelling me, blaming me for what happened, telling me i am too dependent on people, that i was obcessive, taking me to the psych ward against my will, costing thousands in therapy and wasting years of my life trying to get over the attachment, not to mention not responding to any of my e-mails. i felt i was treated like an animal and this made me wonder whether i will ever forgive those people who now i percieve as scum bags. i wrote an e-mail to them today and it was quite angry and threatening. but, i was hoping i would get an apology from them. then, i got scared they would do something to hurt me and i sent another e-mail saying i gave up and they don't need to apologize. if you were in my situation, how to do you forgive and forget if you think those people stole the best eight years of your life?do you think we are sex addicts?
♥ ok, so me and my husband cant stop! any time we are left alone we end up getting naked and getting it on, any time alone we do it anything we say has to be about sex,we talk about sex,we have sex our whole life revolves around sex! how can we stop i really wouldnt go to any meeting for ninphos but i wonder is it normal or we do have a prob. we have been married for 7 yrs and it wasnt always this way. i know you are no professionals i would just to know your opinion on this and what would you do if you were in this situation.